Danielle is 10, so leaving in real terms is a good 8 years away. Sleep away summer camps are very popular in the Northeast, but Danielle hasn’t been interested and we certainly aren’t pushing it.
She’s spent 3 nights at my wife’s sisters place and 2 nights with school camp and 2 nights with Girl Scout camp. That’s it.
But she’s been pushing for independence. Going to school last year she often asked to go by herself. A half mile in downtown Brooklyn, sorry, not happening. About 3 blocks from school I let her scooter off by herself. I can see her.
We have a French pastry place next door (seriously good croissants) and they do ice cream in the summer. So I let her take my money and Victoria and they go by themselves.
I will let her go by herself to the deli across the street. That might seem harmless if you didn’t know our street. Atlantic Avenue is a major Brooklyn street. My wife isn’t in love with this idea. Our neighbor with an 11 year old doesn’t let her daughter do that. But Danielle does it fine.
Danielle’s best friend Mackenzie moved to Florida several years ago. They have stayed in touch, visited in both directions and in general stayed best friends. Mackenzie has spent the past two weeks with us while they both do a gymnastics camp in Manhattan. It’s been very fun having Mackenzie stay with us. They are clearly best friends. Her mom is here in Brooklyn, but staying a few blocks away in an apartment.
So next week, Danielle is going to Florida with Mackenzie. Not with us. She’s flying with Mackenzie’s family and my wife will fly to Florida next weekend to pick her up. So pretty much a week away.
It’s pretty much sleep away on training wheels since she’s just staying with family she knows in a place she knows (and it’s a really nice place). But it’s the first time she’s been away this long.
I’m fine with it. Danielle is a mature 10 year old and can easily handle it. My wife? We’ll see…